Hey guys! Thanks for sticking with me on this little series.
You see, the whole inspiration behind this blog series is because of a conversation I had with my husband. I was asking the question, "Why do I not feel successful?" He went on to tell me how much potential I have, how talented I am, and a bunch of other nice things. He's clearly my biggest fan ;). The problem I was wrestling with is that I know I have potential. I know I have talent. These are things I've worked really hard on. BUT, I also know that I'm not great at being patient. I get restless easily, and because I know I'm capable of juggling several things, I tend to get distracted. This brings me to the second part of this series. Persistence, Patience, and Consistency. All three of these disciplines have worked together toward success in my life.
Call it PCP or PPC or however you want to say it, but what I've found is that when I am patient with the process, persistent when things get hard, and consistent over the long haul that is when I've experienced the most success in whatever I'm doing. Some people say "just do one thing and do it well", and while that sounds great, and for some people it is great, but for me I LIKE doing different things. I LIKE using a lot of different skills, and I LIKE multitasking. The key though for me is to remind myself in that whatever it is I'm doing I have to be patient, persistent, and consistent over the long haul in order to reach my fullest potential and to reach my definition of success. Does that make sense?
So back to the question, "I know I'm talented, but why am I not successful?"
What I've learned are two things. First, clearly define YOUR definition of success. Not anyone else's. Then set goals to achieve that. Second, stick to it with patience, persistence, and consistency. Pursue that thing even when it's hard and you want to throw in the towel or when you get bored and need to move on to the next thing. Trust me, I've been there and done that.
Lastly, I know everyone is so different in their thoughts, personalities, jobs, and life. What works for me might not work for someone else. But I think this will at least start the conversation. Being honest with myself about my strengths and weaknesses has been the biggest key for growth in my career and family life. So with all of that said, if you're struggling with the idea of success in your life, maybe read part one and then part two of this series and let it simmer a little bit. I have a feeling there might be a breakthrough for you in one way or another. Cheers!